Lesbian couple win same parental rights as married
heterosexuals
STEPHEN FRASER AND
CATHERINE DEVENEY
A LESBIAN couple have made Scottish legal
history by winning the same parental rights over their children as
heterosexuals.
The landmark ruling, which was made in private at
Edinburgh Sheriff Court, means the women and their children are considered a
family unit by the law.
The women, who cannot be identified, began their
relationship two years ago. One, ‘Pam’, has a four-year-old son, ‘David’, from a
previous marriage. The second woman, a 30-year-old teacher called ‘Natalie’, has
an eight-month-old boy, ‘Cameron’, fathered by an anonymous sperm donor.
Sheriff Noel McPartlin agreed to give both women parental rights over
each other’s children. Pam is now legally a parent to Cameron, and Natalie a
parent to David.
It also means they have greater parental rights than
fathers who are not married to the mothers of their children, although men can
apply for similar orders.
And in another twist to the judgment on March
19, David’s father did not contest the application, meaning the boy now has
three legally-recognised parents.
The historic decision will now be used
in the appeal by a lesbian couple who recently went to court to stop a gay sperm
donor who fathered their child winning custody.
In that case, which was
heard last month at Glasgow Sheriff Court, Sheriff Laura Duncan gave parental
rights to the sperm donor and ruled that the women did not constitute a family
group.
The women in the Edinburgh case have now decided to make their
victory public and spoke exclusively to Scotland on Sunday.
Natalie
said: "To me, family is about cohesion, about bringing people together in a
secure, loving, stable environment. When David falls over he runs to one of us.
When Cameron sees me, or Pam, or David, his face lights up. That’s family."
Pam, who is the boys’ main carer, denied the couple had intended to
strike a blow for lesbian rights. She said: "We are not that interested in other
people’s children. We’re interested in ours and we just want them to have the
best care possible."
They launched their action after they found Pam
could not give permission for Cameron to receive medical treatment.
The
couple’s lawyer, Wendy Sheehan, said her clients wanted to ensure that if the
relationship foundered, the children would be able to see both mothers who would
negotiate over access arrangements. Sheehan said: "The Edinburgh sheriff took a
flexible, enlightened approach to the legislation and took account the reality
of who is caring for a child, not the biology of its parents."
Tim
Hopkins, a gay rights campaigner, said: "We are delighted by this judgment
because it offers the children of same sex couples the same stability and legal
protection that children of married couples or unmarried couples, where a court
order has been made, currently enjoy."
He added: "There are hundreds of
families in Scotland parented by gay people and I hope this decision encourages
many more to try and win formal parental rights for children they are already
parenting."
Fiona Cook, the lawyer for the Glasgow lesbian couple,
confirmed that the Edinburgh Sheriff’s decision will be cited in her clients’
appeal.
Peter Kearney, a spokesman for the Scottish Catholic Church,
said: "To suggest same sex couples should have the same rights as married
couples is a step in the wrong direction . Children brought up by both
biological parents, who are married, are the most likely to
prosper."