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Police Warned Gays About Dating Services
Homicide victim had been robbed earlier by man met through Net chat line
Lee Greenberg, Elaine O'Connor and Fiona Isaacson, with files from Kirstin Endemann
The Ottawa Citizen
December 6, 2002
Christopher Raynsford

Just a few weeks ago, Christopher Raynsford told friends he had been threatened and robbed at knifepoint by a man he met on an Internet chat line and invited home.

Two days ago, he was found dead in his Lisgar Street apartment. His badly beaten body had been there for several days.

The killing follows a string of unsolved robberies and assaults in Ottawa dating back to November 2001, involving male victims sought out through telephone dating lines for men.

Police released a media advisory last December, warning that in the preceding months, at least five users of gay dating services had been assaulted and robbed and suffered minor injuries at the hands of someone they met over the phone.

Ottawa's gay community publication, Capital Xtra!, reported in its latest edition that the assaults are linked to a telephone chat line for men.

Police will not confirm a link.

"We'll go so far as to say it was a telephone dating service that they were meeting them through," Ottawa police Insp. Terry Cheslock said last night.

Since last December's police warning, two more assaults, carried out in a similar manner, have been reported, Insp. Cheslock said.

Mr. Raynsford used the online chat service, gay.com .

In the first five cases, the victims met the suspect, had consensual sex and were then ordered to hand over money. When they refused, the men were assaulted and robbed.

The suspect in these incidents is described as a white male, 30 to 40 years old, between 5-foot-10 and six feet tall. He's of thin to medium build, with shoulder-length curly brown hair. He uses the names John and Paul.

Insp. Cheslock said police were not linking these assaults with the city's eighth homicide of the year. Police have also not positively identified the body found Wednesday morning in apartment 805 at 257 Lisgar St. as that of Mr. Raynsford, who lived in the unit. He has not shown up for work since Nov. 21.

As a result of the media attention to the killing, Insp. Cheslock said police have received a number of tips they are following up.

But the chairwoman of the police liaison committee said last night she felt the gay community could have been told of the specific threat sooner, had all community representatives shared what information they had.

Cynthia Cousens, chairwoman of the Ottawa police liaison committee for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender communities, said police informed the committee of assaults in a timely manner, but were never told of a possible common link between them.

She said Capital Xtra! shared their conclusions the assaults were linked through the telephone chat line with the group just last month, almost a year after the initial police warning.

"Up to that point, the liaison committee was not aware there was a problem (with the chat line), so our concern now is asking the owners what safety mechanisms do they have in place," Ms. Cousens said.

Cruiseline is one of the local chat line services. Marketing manager Harlond Davey says his service started placing recorded advisories on the line just within the last two months.

"We did put a prompt at the beginning of the system about meeting people in public," Mr. Davey said. He said hundreds of people are registered to use the chat line in Ottawa.

"There is always a possibility there are predatory people in chat rooms," Ms. Cousens said. "There is always a possibility people will use those chatlines for hate crimes."

She advised those using the services to always meet in public with a friend present.

Ottawa's online gay community mourned the loss of a "caring, loving" man yesterday, as hundreds of people flooded onto a popular chat room in response to Mr. Raynsford's death.

In the "Ottawa" chat room on gay.com , a steady stream of online friends came together to discuss the man many of them knew only as "Hollis," Mr. Raynsford's online handle.

"It's a sad day," wrote Kuurt. (People in the chat room use online nicknames.)

The Web site gay.com is an online dating service based in San Francisco, California. Their Web site claims to have more than 5.2 million members worldwide.

In recent years, the Ottawa chat room has acted as a meeting place for online members of the gay community to gather to catch up with old friends, make new ones or pick up a sexual partner. It's part community centre, part coffee shop, part bar.

In his profile on the gay.com Web site, Mr. Raynsford answers the question "How gay are you?" with: "Totally." He listed himself as 5-9, 150 pounds, with an "extroverted/social, funny, romantic personality."

He completes the phrase "I am looking for" with "love."

Yesterday, employees at the National Art Centre's Le Caf?, where Mr. Raynsford had worked since early October, said they realized something was amiss when he missed a shift Nov. 21.

"He was so reliable," said waiter and friend Jason Huard, 25. "You could really trust him."

Yesterday, from her home outside Owen Sound, Mr. Raynsford's mother was reluctant to speak about her family's loss.

"The police have told us at the moment not to talk to anybody," said Anne Raynsford. "They still haven't released stuff and they're concerned about what gets said, that it might hamper what they're doing, so they've asked us for 24 hours."

In an unrelated development, Kingston police said Wednesday they are treating the discovery of a 39-year-old man's body as a homicide. Robert LeClair, who was gay, worked as a waiter at a Kingston restaurant.

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Chat Group in Mourning
The Ottawa Citizen
December 6, 2002
Christopher Raynsford

What follows is an excerpt from a conversation from an online chat group about the death of Christopher Raynsford.

Querk: I am spooked after what happened to Steffer. Poor guy, he has been there for weeks on end, apparently. I can't remember when was the last time I talked to him.

Briano: About 10 days

Querk: He wanted me to visit him over lunch. That's why I always kept my dogs around when I met a stranger.

Kuurt: It's a sad day.

TjayBee: I haven't stopped bloody crying since last night.

Awesome Bulge: Poor guy. He was beaten to death.

push25: But the guy my friends and I saw him with 10 days ago was not someone Chris met from online, he told us.

Querk: Well, makes me feel I should start logging my chats.

push25: I was with the police for the better part of last night. I gave statements, etc.

push25: A group of us saw them together at CP two Fridays ago.

Kuurt: You can't trust anyone nowadays, and that is why it's so important to watch out for one another instead of stabbing people in the back.

TjayBee: I once told Chris my story of being stabbed in an alley (gay bashed) and he spent the next half-hour telling me how happy I was still around and made it through, I loved that guy, God!

Querk: Well it would not be the first time Ottawa had hate crimes against gays. Remember that poor guy about 10 years ago that was thrown off Alexandra Bridge?

grandjany: I was attacked last December and they still haven't caught the guy.

TjayBee: I remember the bridge story.

Briano: Yeah, that was just after I moved to the area.

Querk: And the two guys that had their throat cut in Orl?ans ...

DilmahSpice25: We have had a few beatings in Perth. Three or four guys smashing a gay guy, etc.

by-town-guy: U should at least get the guy's licence plate before you invite anyone in.

Querk: I will start loggin' my chats, for sure.

bluemage2002: Funny to say, but the cops were out in force last night: most of the parks and bathhouses and bars ...

AwesomeBulge: Every hour.

TjayBee: If Hollis were here right now, he'd be organizing a posse.

Briano: hollis will be missed by lots of people.

Danny1967: There is going to be a vigil and memorial service. It's in the works now. Will keep you all posted!

Tjaybee: He was going to go to New York.

MaxNepean: Chris was all heart & generosity.

fuzzyinorillia: Everyone is really going to have to be more careful.

Briano: I know Chris loved to sing,

kiaguy: And he had a great voice and after a song, he would ask if (there was) anything he could do to improve the song.

Briano: We had many great times there.

Canadian_Skiboy: Scary thing is, that this animal could be on here now.

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Homicide a Reality Check for Gay Men
'We can't put our guards down' because people are getting killed
Jennifer Campbell
The Ottawa Citizen
December 6, 2002
More than 55,000 people, including the men
above who covered themselves in blue, took
part in Ottawa's last Gay Pride parade
(Patrick Doyle, The Ottawa Citizen)

As news of Christopher Raynsford's death filtered through the gay community yesterday, shocked and saddened gay men said the death was a reality check that they can't let their guards down.

"We have gained some ground and yes, that's very positive," said Ghislain Rousseau, chairman of Pride 2003 Ottawa-Gatineau.

"But this shows we can't put our guards down because some people are still getting killed, injured, beaten up on the street, and graffiti is still put up. This isn't acceptable."

Clusters of sombre men gathered last night at the Centretown Pub, Mr. Raynsford's regular haunt, to remember him.

"In light of what's happened, we're getting together to try to understand this and talk about it and hold each other," said Joseph Ferrone, who was a friend of Mr. Raynsford's.

Pub customer Robert Duchesneau said the incident provided a reality check for his community.

"Gay people have to be very aware," he said. "The city's more tolerant, but gay friendly? Well, you don't get beaten up on every corner anymore, like you did 10 years ago."

A regular at the Somerset Street pub, he said customers routinely get yelled at from the street. He, for one, doesn't feel comfortable walking hand-in-hand with his partner in Ottawa.

"It's not particularly easy being gay here," he said.

To that end, the community didn't express great surprise about the killing.

"It's almost tragic to say it's not surprising," said Felix Ng, a third-year Carleton student and administrative co-ordinator of the university's Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Centre.

"It will shake up the community and serve as a reminder that yes, this sort of thing does happen."

Mr. Ferrone said the crime doesn't make him fearful, but it does make him look at things differently.

"As soon as you become fearful, you stop living," he said.

The pride committee was planning a vigil for tonight. Mr. Rousseau said after that, the committee will work on ways to ensure such killings don't happen again.

The fact that Ottawa has a hate crime unit and a community liaison committee are good signs, Mr. Rousseau said.

But he feels there needs to be more direct communication with the gay and lesbian community to make members aware of the service and more willing to report incidents of violence.

There is some evidence that Ottawa is becoming more gay friendly. Or at least, gay tolerant.

More than 55,000 people came out for the Gay Pride parade last July. It's an event that's been gaining momentum for the past few years.

A recent Statistics Canada census report revealed that Ottawa tied Vancouver for having the highest percentage of declared gay and lesbian couples in the nation.

There was talk last summer about the demarcation of an Ottawa Gay Village -- from Bank to Elgin; Gladstone to Lisgar. There were fanciful thoughts of the area someday rivalling Toronto's thriving gay district.

Mr. Raynsford's Lisgar Street apartment is located in the "gay village."

Alex Munter, an openly gay city councillor, said the creation of a hate crime unit speaks volumes for the quality of life for gays in Ottawa.

"Ottawa is a good city to be gay in," he said.

"It's a city that's open and progressive. This city was one of the first to start a hate-crimes unit."

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Ottawa's Hate Crimes Unit 'Making Headway'
Four-man team works to raise the 'trust level'
Sean Hatchard
The Ottawa Citizen
December 06, 2002
Ghislain Rousseau is organizing a candlelight
vigil tonight in memory of Christopher Raynsford,
who was found dead in his Lisgar Street apartment.
The vigil will start at 8:30 p.m. at the human rights
monument at the corner of Elgin and Lisgar streets.
(Wayne Cuddington, Ottawa Citizen)

The Ottawa police force's hate crimes unit may only have four officers, but it says it's making headway establishing partnerships in a number of Ottawa communities.

Headed by 16-year force veteran Det. Murray Knowles, the unit has been in existence for 10 years. The four-man team will be involved in the investigation into this week's death of a gay Ottawa man. Police discovered the body of Chris Raynsford in his Lisgar Avenue apartment Wednesday morning.

Det. Knowles, 38, said his unit has several mandates. Besides the actual investigation of hate crimes, the unit also does work in outreach and intelligence gathering.

He said the most important part of the unit's job is to give police an identity in Ottawa's communities, so police can prevent a problem from happening instead of reacting to it.

"We have a lot of informal meetings, like going out for a coffee with a representative of a community group," said Det. Knowles, whose unit also includes Det. Frank Corkery, Det. Will Hinterberger and Sgt. Rick Wilhelm.

"In some cases, there is some hesitation in reporting a hate crime, but if we can get out there and raise the trust level, that can change," Det. Knowles said. "Sometimes a person will hesitate to call the police, but they may have a friend who says, 'I have friend in the police department and they will treat you right.' "

Det. Knowles said it's key for his officers to be informed of international news.

"A lot of what we do is directly tied to world events and the impact they have on Ottawa," he said. "For example, on Sept. 11 (2001) we were very busy and the recent unrest in Israel really overflows to Canada."

Mitchell Bellman, executive director of the Jewish Community Council of Ottawa, had nothing but praise for Ottawa's hate crimes unit.

"The Jewish community has had a terrific relationship with them for many years," he said. "It's assuring to know the person on the other end of the phone is very knowledgeable about hate crimes."

George Hartsgrove, a project co-ordinator with Equality for Gays and Lesbians Everywhere, said the unit is quite visible.

"They always have a presence at our pride parades and we meet with them regularly," he said.

Det. Knowles, who also spent time in the force's tactical unit, said his current job offers him a different perspective on the world.

"It's very mind-expanding. You get to meet people from all walks of life," he said.

A hate crime is a criminal offence against a person, group of people or property that is based on hate elements such as race, religion, nationality, ethnic origin or sexual orientation.

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'Gay bashing' Feared in Killing
Man Found Dead; Recently Told Friend Stranger Had Robbed, Threatened Him
Elaine O'Connor and Jean-Fran?ois Bertrand, with files from Sean Hatchard and Joanne Laucius
The Ottawa Citizen
December 05, 2002
Christopher Raynsford was thrilled to take
part in the play The Laramie Project.
(Julie Oliver, The Ottawa Citizen)

A gay man who told his friends he was threatened and robbed by a stranger he met on the Internet and invited home just last month was found dead in his downtown Ottawa apartment yesterday morning.

Police are calling the death of Chris Raynsford, 35, a homicide. Police say he had been dead in apartment 805, at 257 Lisgar St., for some time before he was discovered.

Friends who worked with Mr. Raynsford at Le Caf? restaurant in the National Arts Centre where he was a server said he hadn't showed up to work since Nov. 21.

He had been hired a few months ago.

They were shocked at the news today that the friendly, trusting man they knew had been killed.

"It is a gay bashing incident, certainly," said Michael Fortier, Mr. Raynsford's friend of more than two years.

Mr. Fortier said his friend, originally from Owen Sound, was single and occasionally used an Internet chat line on www.gay.com .

Mr. Fortier said that last month, his friend invited a man he'd met over to his apartment. Mr. Raynsford said the man threatened and then robbed him of CDs, videos and other items.

"He was very scared and he hoped it would never happen again," Mr. Fortier said.

His friend, he said, did not report the incident to police.

Mr. Raynsford was an outgoing man with a talent for singing and a passion for acting, his friend recalled.

He loved Broadway musicals like Les Mis?rables, had a ball performing karaoke and dreamed of landing a role on the main stage.

While he worked as a server in Ottawa restaurants he acted in community theatre, hoping to get discovered.

Just last spring, he performed in an Act Out Theatre production of The Laramie Project, a play about the tragic gay-bashing death of Matthew Shepard.

Actor Victor Cornfoot performed with Mr. Raynsford in Hair and the Laramie Project.

The Laramie Project, based on 200 in-depth interviews with the residents of Laramie, Wyoming shortly after 21-year-old Matthew Shepard was killed there for his homosexuality, created a great deal of buzz about the theatre group, and Mr. Raynsford was thrilled to be part of the production, said Mr. Cornfoot.

"It was his first time doing a serious play. He really enjoyed doing it," said Mr. Cornfoot.

"He was a pretty straight-forward type of guy," he said. "He was a good person, down-to-earth, always trying to help. He helped with advertising and did whatever he could."

The subject matter in the play evidently touched Mr. Raynsford. Earlier this year, he added his comments to a Web site dedicated to Matthew Shepard, jotting down his thoughts:

"To all who have taken the time to sign and read this guestbook, thank you! To know there are people in this world who still care for someone that (they have) not even met is inspiring. We are doing the play The Laramie Project in May here in Ottawa and I for one will be honoured in telling this story to the family and friends. My heart goes out to you and it must be a comfort to know that people still care. God bless."

Mr. Fortier said he began to get suspicious when his friend failed to show up for an audition for an Ottawa production of Mama Mia that they planned to attend on the weekend.

"He never showed up and that's when I knew something was wrong," Mr. Fortier said, adding he called and left messages on his friend's answering machine, but never got a call back.

"I am in a bit of shock," Mr. Fortier said. "I feel so bad. I should have called him earlier. I want to be sure that they get the killer."

Ottawa police major crime unit commandeered the eighth floor of the building yesterday, and detectives were working late into the night polling residents about the victim, going door-to-door and showing them a small photograph.

Neighbours were just coming home from work when they heard news of the crime.

Some residents said police told them that the victim had been dead "for days."

"The smell in the hallway is just wicked," said neighbour Joan Collins, who lives with her husband in apartment 811.

Mrs. Collins said she had met the victim, who introduced himself as Chris, in the elevator a few weeks ago.

"He was very nice, very friendly," she said.

Apartment resident Ruth Ferry was shocked with the news of the death.

"I'm very surprised about this. I've lived in the building since August and there hasn't really been any problems," the second-floor resident said.

Other residents described Mr. Raynsford as a friendly neighbour, who was seen often walking alone on Lisgar Avenue in a trench coat and hat.

The apartment building's assistant superintendent checked on the victim after being asked to do so by a relative of Mr. Raynsford who wished to check up on him. Upon entering Mr. Raynsford's apartment, at 9:15 a.m., the assistant superintendent called police.

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Chris Raynsford
Production Team, Actor
 
Chris Raynsford has been with Act Out Theatre in various capacities since their inaugural show, Poor Super Man. Chris is glad to be back on stage in his second production with Act Out Theatre. Chris recently appeared in The Laramie Project. Chris is thrilled to be back on stage in a musical that he has loved for many years. He has been doing musicals from a very young age such as South Pacific, Brigadoon, Jesus Christ Superstar to name a few. Chris would like to thank all his friends and family for their support and love and can’t wait to be part of future productions with Act Out Theatre both on and off the stage. Happy pride Ottawa, and may the pride in yourself be a year-round event!
 
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